Several years into our marriage we realized that sex before an evening out works better than sex at the end of the evening. I’m not sure why it took us so long to figure this out. I guess it’s not really what you see in the movies or on tv. Usually, after a big dinner out, then a movie, it’s late… we’re full and tired… the sex is borderline obligatory at that point.
Sex before date on the other hand…? You look your best, you’re fresh and rested, you’re excited about an evening together…! Afterwards, you feel relaxed, and can just kick back and enjoy time with your sweetie. Perfect!